Many people think that they have to accept whatever life throws at them. They'll say, "This is my fate, my destiny. I cannot change it."
YOU CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING. Your FUTURE is YOURS to DESIGN! You always have a CHOICE.
You don't have to suffer needlessly. Your destiny depends on you, not on external factors.
I know someone who says she just accepts what life gives her because she has done everything she can to improve it.
Guess what her lifestyle is?
She wakes up in the morning, goes to work, comes back home, relaxes, chats with people, watches TV, then goes to sleep. Next day, the same routine cycle ensues.
Huh?!? Is this what she calls "doing her best?"
She believes she has tried her best and just accepts it in her heart that this is her life.
You reap what you sow.
You just don't sit around and wait for a million dollars to fall from the sky. You have to get off the couch, get your eyes off the TV screen, and get your mind and body to work!
When your life is not “playing out” the way you want it to be, don't just accept it and say: "This is the life I was meant to live" or "Things will get better some day." Don't expect your luck to change, unless you do something about it. When something goes wrong, don't just regard it as what is your life; rather use it as feedback. Learn your lesson, make the most of the situation, and do something to resolve the problem.
It's not enough to think positive; you also have to act positive. In other words..
Don't just stand (or sit) there. DO something to NOW improve YOUR LIFE!